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I play guitar in church and carry simply because there is too many unsecure entrances, in my opinion. I have not told anyone, however, some of the security team (LEO/former LEO) knows. A least, I assume they do, because the head of security talked with me once about what to do in an active shooter situation and offered to give me training!

I carry an XDm .45 compactin an IWB holster. I have yet to have strange looks when given a hug. One thing I do, however, if someone comes in on my strong side (I'm right handed, so I try and give left handed hugs), I will lean in their direction to keep my right hip from coming into contact. One time, a person saw my holster printing against my shirt as I bent over to adjust a foot pedal. He commented that he knew I had a gun, so I did tell him I had my CHL and it is perfectly legal to carry in our church (although I did not tell him I had a gun). We then talked about his wanting to get his CHL. Even if one were to brush up against my right side, and figure out what that was, I doubt it would be a big deal. Never say never, but its unlikely. When most people know you in church (that is, they know you, and love you as a member), I think there is a level of grace shown to one another.

That being said, however, one important rule - especially in church: concealed is concealed. Don't tell anyone you're carrying - it's none of their business. I know I repeat this on every church carry thread, but its something worth repeatiing. A concerned pastor's wife or well-meaning person can change rules with one email or phone call.