Although contrary to what many people think, "God helps those who help themselves" is NOT in the Bible, but I still agree with the concept.
I pray for protection for myself and loved ones -- and others -- but I also need to take steps to protect myself and others. For me that's being armed and dangerous.

It's kind of like praying for a job but never going out to look for one...we Christians (don't know what Pagans do...tree-thumping perhaps?) need to pray AND act...then the outcome is left in God's hands.
So if I lose the fight, I really DO see it as "An Act of God," that it was my time to check out...
-- John D.