jason wrote:I think above all else, remember that you have a very powerful weapon at your disposal - your brain. Each situation will be different and there is no "silver bullet" answer.
Situational awareness is key in these situations. Always being mindful of what is around you and what tactical advantages you might have or not have given a situation.
Examples:
- Don't park your car in the dark corner of a shopping mall parking lot.
- Do leave ample room between your car and the one in front of you at stop lights to maneuver if necessary (carjackings).
- 911 on my phone is speed-dialed
Given that the BG has the drop on you, remain calm and try not to agitate him. You'll have very little time to assess the BG's demeanor. Is the BG high, crazy, desperate, what? This assessment is key, as it could help you determine if any negotiation is possible.
Do everything you can to keep distance between you and the BG. If you haven't had training in direct hand-to-hand combat, I wouldn't suggest engaging the BG in such a manner.
The BG wants something from you. What is it? If it's money, give it. If it's your car give it. Personally, I don't believe any life is worth either of these things. Some here will disagree.
Do not get into the car with the BG. That's where I draw the line.
Carrying a concealed weapon, I hope I never have to use it. But I am also prepared to if I feel that my life or the lives of others is at risk.
I agree with Jason. The brain is the most powerful weapon. There is no cookie cutter solution. A lot depends on all of the variables present in the environment at the time, your assessment of the BG, and your own abilities and training. Like a Ninja, use the environment as your friend. Maintaining presence of mind was critical for me during special times. Go through the OODA loop cycle and once a decision is made to respond with force, the action must be fast, forceful, and violent - like a storm. Use space and time to your advantage. Having said all that, I agree with others that property is not worth a life. When I teach a women's self-defense course using all available items at hand, the one bottom line we leave with is never to get in the car with a perp.