OK I asked my neighbor about this, the guy works for arlington PD.
His first soultion was to hand him your DL, Insurance, and CHL with the chl on top. As the cop looks at the chl just say "its in my _o' clock" or wherever you may have it.
Second solution is Hand him your DL, Insurance, CHL with the CHL on the bottom with a post it on the back not the front. Cop will feel the note and look at it, if he dosent feel it when he looks at the CHL ask hi to flip it over. Just write "I am carrying a pistol, I would appreciate it if you could not mention "gun" around my passengers. Thank You"
He said DO NOT get out of the car. Do Not put the note on the front of any ID and do not motion to where it is.
Hope that helps.
-Patrick