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by Keith B
Thu Feb 07, 2008 1:39 pm
Forum: General Texas CHL Discussion
Topic: Need Help: The Parents Found Out...
Replies: 38
Views: 5883

Re: Need Help: The Parents Found Out...

Yes. It is common for folks to read the intro post to a long thread and not pay attention that someone has posted an update.

One thing that helps is if the orginal poster goes back and edits the thread subject with the word 'Updated' in it.
by Keith B
Wed Feb 06, 2008 10:47 am
Forum: General Texas CHL Discussion
Topic: Need Help: The Parents Found Out...
Replies: 38
Views: 5883

Re: Need Help: The Parents Found Out...

NguyenVanDon wrote:So, I just got done talking to both rents on the phone. They seem to support my idea 100%. I gave them everything about becoming a CHL holder and how responsible we are. They understand clearly where I'm coming from and where they came from.

BTW, I didn't mention this earlier, but I'm planning on going into the law enforcement after I'm done with this college semester. I'm looking into DFW International Airport Law Enforcement. I have talk to one of the LEO there and he said they are under staff right now. It's also a good advantage for my part since I'm Viet and they need more people with ethnic background. So it looks like I am going to apply there soon. Gonna try to enter into the academy and start my 6 months training asap.

I think I made a thread back a couple months ago about becoming a law enforcement officer. FYI now it's true...
Really glad this worked out for you! Most parents are resonable; it probably just cuaght them off guard and they were not sure of the reason.

Good luck on the law enforcement career. I think that would be a good choice at the airport!
by Keith B
Tue Feb 05, 2008 9:22 am
Forum: General Texas CHL Discussion
Topic: Need Help: The Parents Found Out...
Replies: 38
Views: 5883

Re: Need Help: The Parents Found Out...

Your parents deserve respect, as do all parents. Unfortunately they didn't respect you as grown man if they snooped and found your CCW weapon. I wouldn't throw that in their face, but it is still an invasion of your privacy.

As others have said, I would first try to reason with them on the issue verbally or in writting. If that fails, then you may have to take the route of telling them it is gone, buy a safe and if they are comng over, lock it up. If they ask what is in the safe, tell them it is copies of imprtant documents (gun owners manuals) and valuables (your gun IS valuable right??) ;-)

I am like TAM. My Mom is soon to be 88 and she still thinks I need her advice on everything (However, she is OK with me carrying as I was a reserve LEO at one time and my Brother-in-Law is a retired Police Chief) You will always be their child that needs guidance and their input. It is a part most parents don't want to let go of. You sometimes have to play the game, make them feel comfortable and go on. It is no different with the anti's in public; you keep it concealed, they don't know it is there, and everyone is happy and safe. If you ever do have to use it to defend life, they will quickly understand why you do what you do.

Best of luck!

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