Thats one thing I learned about dating a long time ago... The first hint of drama, bug out!! If I hear more than 2 sentences about a ex within 2 months of dating it's the last time she'll hear from me.. Then ya get the whole " your the perfect guy, you treat me so well " line.. I stuck around with a girl for several yrs that was all about drama at first, then I thought I had it all cleaned up. A yr went by and I actually started to think I wanted to marry this chick.. A few months later I found out that during that yr she slept with several other guys, and she was back dating her old ex... I got rid of the drama, but she was like a moth to a flame. She just went behind my back.. I learned what the saying " you cant change people " really means... Hind sight is 20/20, funny that even when you know that, you still never see the truth until your out of the situation. She called me a few weeks ago, just out of the blue.. Mentioned she was now dating a guy thats 23, has 3 kids. Her, her B/F and his kids are all living with his parents..
All I could do was smile and chuckle, and with a " good luck " I hung up the phone and blocked her phone number
With the knowledge, it got me out of another possible bad situation with another girl.. Dated her for a little while, taking is very very slow. I then learned her ex b/f was still living with her and they have been dating back and forth for yrs, and he's a tad on the psycho side.. I bugged out, again.. A few weeks later a buddy calls me up freaking out, this girl is pregnant, and he thought I had something to do with it.. Nope not me, but it was however the ex b/f.. Anymore it takes a lot more than a pretty smile and a wink of an eye before I'm even remotely interested
Glad you got out of it without anything bad happening.
