We didn't really have time to discuss the whole episode at length. I think he's just concerned that it might have been someone 'casing' the place for future malfeasance. He had no thought at all of the guy robbing the church during the offering - from his seat he could see the guy the whole time.Hoi Polloi wrote:This is how I understand the guy's behavior: visitor comes in as the service is starting, sits in the back, gets up (leaving the sanctuary?) during the collection, returns to his seat, then leaves as the service is over.UpTheIrons wrote:The guy came in just as the service started, sat in the back, and only got up and left his seat during the offering. As soon as the service was over, the guy left. He mentioned how this was a tad unsettling "with the day and age we are in" and wondered aloud about possible security measures.
That describes the behavior of a great percentage of church visitors in my experience. It's obvious that the visitor's behavior disturbed the pastor and was out of the ordinary for his experience, but I'm not understanding what the unusual behavior was that unsettled him. Did he think the guy might be robbing the church during the offering while everyone else was in the sanctuary? (I was once followed by ushers when I left the sanctuary of a church I was visiting mid-service to use the restroom in the social hall.) Was it a single, dark-skinned stranger who didn't interact with them, leaving the pastor to worry about all the news reports he's seen? Or is it something else he's worried about?
I think it was an instance that was so far out of the realm of "normal" for a Sunday morning that it really struck him as odd. We've had the odd visitor pop in and be gone as soon as the service was over, too, but the combo of dark/Middle Eastern appearance, alone, and in-and-gone before anyone could greet him was what tickled his Spidey sense.
I didn't mention earlier (and probably should have) that this isn't a huge church. Bigger than many, for sure, but not big enough for anyone to be a "regular anonymous attendee". That smallish size coupled with the observations above is what flipped his switch.