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bzo311,

Glad you kept a level head during this. BTDTGT (Been There Done That Got the T-shirt) It's hard enough integrating 2 people when you are getting married but having relatives live you... Makes me shiver. Make sure you change all of the locks, keys, passwords, codes and make sure you clean everything out - Cars, house etc just to make sure no little "surprises" were left behind.

Long time ago we were in that same situation. However, just to even the playing field we did have my sister in law, her husband and three kinds move from Arizona and stayed with us for 6 months. There were bumps and bruises an item broken and some lack of "cleaning" issues but all in all we did well. everyone tried to stay out of everyones path and eventually her husband got a job and they got their own house a few miles away. So it worked but you really have to have the right people and they have to be adults about it. I sure was glad when they left though!!