For example, this is my "red line" and you're free to make your own "red line";
1. perp over 20 ft away & no gun, use verbal de-escalation and/or verbal commands.
2. perp less than 20 ft away & no gun, no knife. use pepper spray and/or blind with tactical flashlight.
3. perp less than 20 ft away with knife or at any distance with gun, shoot.
The tactical flashlight is the best "weapon" that is not legally a "weapon" to use for self defense in foreign countries, airports, 30.06 posted places. This is because in even the most draconian weapon banned places, flashlights are still legal. For example, in China, eveything from stun guns, tazers, pepper spray, knives and firearms, even certain "overpowered" airsoft guns are illegal. However, a flashlight is still legal in Great Britain, China, etc. Even against a perp with a gun at a long distance away, the tactical flashlight can be used to temporarily blind the attacker for 1-2 seconds so that you could make a quick escape. At closer range, it could be used as a blunt weapon for self defense.
One time in China, I saw a security guard who stood guard in front of the elevator go the bathroom. Immediately, a young man walked towards the elevator but hung out behind a large pot plant about 15 ft away from the elevator. When I started to walk towards the elevator, he darted out from behind the pot plant and walked towards the elevator. I kept a large mag light in my backpack and quickly removed it so that he saw my mag light in my hand. It was the big 18 inch mag light. He turned around and left the scene. Thugs don't have a job and rob/rape/kill because it is easier to do so than honest work. If you make it hard for them then the lazy thug will just move on to an easier victim. If they wanted hard work, they would've gotten a job instead. You don't have to be super tough. You just have to let them know that you're gonna be hard work for them if they try to victimize you.
NEB wrote:I get the point of your post. I do. However, the title, "A Little Sanity" implies a bit more than perhaps you wanted to convey. The members of this board are not insane raving lunatics. They are law-abiding responsible adults (for the most part ). I know you don't think that everyone here lacks sanity, but your title implies it.
The bottom line is, you have to have thought through scenarios in advance and have a "red line" in your mind about when the threshold for deadly force is crossed. If you're trying to weight ethical, legal, and financial considerations when the act is occurring, your family may very well find out how good that funeral insurance really is. I appreciate this post as a spur to thoughtful consideration of hypotheticals. However, it will not deter me from the use of force if the situation crossed my red line.
My sincere hope (though naïve in some cases) is that my actions would stand alone and the forces that be would see no need for charges of any kind. The civil cases will have to be faced if they come.
--NEB