Nonsense. A spouse cannot prevent the other spouse from spending money that the spouse has access to. Not in this century, anyway.frankie_the_yankee wrote:"...unless I was sure that I could count on my wife to bail me out of jail and agree to pay the legal fees that I will need to fight the charge.", (because any money I had was also "hers" and if she didn't agree to spend it that way then I couldn't either).
This kind of issue comes up in divorces, but not an ongoing marriage.
- Jim