YOU choose who you will associate with, and if they can't understand that, than they are NOT "good people".They are good people. They are just worried about there son. I think he's been playing them all this time and I personally don't want anything to do with him but I can't tell them that because they would disown me as well. They still seem to think he's the one with the drug problem and no one will help him and he has no responsibility for his actions. They are always making excuses for him.
Agree 100%I'd put up boundaries, create distance, and let people lay in the beds they made.
The choices we make have consequences. I will not willingly subject myself to the consequences of poor life decisions made by others.