That comment really bothers me. I am putting myself in your shoes and if I had a girlfriend who said that to me and truly, honestly meant that...then I would have to wonder what kind of future we would have. If we got married and had family would this woman let a BG abduct, abuse, or kill our child than try a defend and protect the child or herself? That is a hard to have think about.Kythas wrote: She even went so far as to say she'd rather a BG kill her or me than have me kill someone in defense of her or my life.
My wife of 13 years wasnt too keen at first of me carrying. At first, in her mind only the police should be allowed to carry. However it didnt take too much convincing for her to realize how important it is to be able to defend yourself and family. Now she wants a CHL. I know she would defend (including having to use deadly force) herself, me, and especially our child without question.