I think it was even here that I heard "The gun in your hand (or on your person) is better than the one at home when you need it". I have decided that guns are like trucks - everyone has their favorite brand, model etc. and we can argue through eternity which is best and why. JMPHO but to carry for defense purposes you have to be comfortable with using the weapon. It is a HUGE responsibility and to me learning and becoming proficient with the weapon so that you are not a liability to yourself and others is vital.
I am tickled to hear more women carrying - to the OP daughter! You go girl! (however I recommend going with in the posted speed limits

)Daddy you should be proud! I am hoping my daughters will make the choice to be prepared to take care of themselves. We are doing what we can...