have been to some lectures with him and he just makes you feel comfortable from the get go.Don't know what type of .357 you have but throw some .38 target loads in - as long as it is not an airweight that should make perceived recoil a lot less. Make sure she gets the proper grip.
What about starting with a .22? You can learn all the mechanics without worrying about developing a flinch if she is sensitive to recoil. We have a 1911-22 that runs much like any SA and has the mag release etc. It is great for practice!
If you were closer I'd say come on out, I would let her try all my "options". I grew up on revolvers, but they are not my go to for carry. SA hides easier, and now that I have gotten over the intimidation factor of them having more parts I am more comfortable having my side arm hold more than 6 and I can reload them a LOT faster. I do have a snubbie, but she is more of a safe queen, fun shooter that I desperately need to practice with more if I will carry as a primary - she is a BUG some though.
The ladies groups will have "gun show days" or how to choose your side arm classes where they get to try on different guns. They are like shoes or underwear. If they don't "fit" they will spend time in the closet or drawer. Us "gals" have issues that guys don't have to deal with, and my hubby is VERY patient and supportive, but can not understand some of the fashion and anatomical issues ladies have to deal with because he is a guy (for this I am thankful
) Wish you the best in your journey, and to me that is what it is. For some longer than others, but due to the nature of the trip, safety and patience is imperative.
