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If this was the only thing wrong with my relationship with my daughter, I would view the whole mess as MY responsibility and move on. $2,500 by itself would not be enough for me to give up my grandkids, especially if I made the mistake of giving the money without being clear that I expected it to be paid back BEFORE I handed it over.

I'm betting this goes deeper than just $2,500.

I don't think you have a leg to stand on re: a lien, but IANAL.

Best wishes and prayers for healing to you and your family.