SewTexas has nailed it.SewTexas wrote:this isn't a "hate", this is a "fear". there is a difference.
She has voices in her head telling her bad things are going to happen even though she she has you telling her that no bad things are going to happen, the voices in her head are louder or older or more persistent. She may need counseling, I doubt if you use my wording she would appreciate it. But that's honestly what's happening to her.
A woman's feelings can be a powerful force in her life, one that interacts with her intellect shaping her thoughts in ways that men can sometimes have trouble understanding. Be gentle and patient with her; it takes many years for some scars to heal.