It all started when my Wife and I decided to take our kids on a jog. We strapped them into the jogging stroller and proceeded down our block to warm up. When we began our stretching I could hear my phone ring from where I had left it in the stroller. I always carry the phone in the stroller just in case of an emergency. I answered the phone and it was my alarm company calling to notify me that the alarm had been activated. I informed them that I was just around the corner from my house and asked them to stay on the line while I ran back over to check things out.
I happened to run past a gentleman I was not familiar with on the way back to the house so my suspicions were raised. In most cases i recognize everyone in my neighborhood so it was definitely something that I i made note of (turns out it was just another jogger). Arriving at the house the front door was wide open. I thought, OK the wind is very strong tonight but I thought i remember locking the door...... My next thought was very sobering. I am outside, all my guns are inside! I decided for whatever reason not to take my Glock with me in this evening. Usually I secure it in a bag in the stroller for easy access. Not a very good feeling and a stupid move on my part.

I asked the alarm company representative to please send a unit to my house immediately as I was not sure if there was someone in the house at this point. Let me stop here and be clear. Regardless if I was armed or not, I would never have went into the house with out the Police clearing it in the first. My family was with me outside, everything else is inconsequential. My immediate concern turned to the safety of my family. I had my wife and kids go over to the neighbor and advise him of the situation. He retrieved his firearm and kept it concealed and out of site just in case some one were to come out of the house and jeopardize my family in any way. That right there is a good neighbor!
Still under no circumstances was anyone allowed to approach or go into the house till the police gave us the green light. 20 minutes later the Constable showed up. I informed him what had happened. At this point I was pretty much sure I had not secured the front door like i had thought and it was the strong winds we were having that blew it wide open. I told the officer this but told him i was not completely sure and that is why I requested them to respond.
This is where it gets embarrassing. I travel for a living and my wife had been stuck at home with a 6 week old and a 2 year old for 5 days with no help. Lets just say our house was super messy. The officer cleared the house and gave us the green light. Now I was sure I forgot to properly secure the door. Its funny how you can be sure you did something but you really just thought about doing the task and never take action. I apologized to him again as I was super embarrassed that my house looked like an episode of "Hoarders", and thanked him for coming out to check things out.
This is what I learned:
1. Always ensure that all windows and doors are absolutely locked before you leave the house. That was just plain dumb and an oversight on my part.
2. I usually am very good at carrying my ccw most of the time. For some reason I did not this evening. It was not a good feeling at all to be unarmed during this whole scene. If there was really a bad guy in the house and they would have been coming out the door when I ran up what would have I defended my self with? that could have gotten ugly quick.
3. Always keep the house somewhat representable. This is more funny than anything but My wife and I were a little embarrassed by our house being so cluttered while the officer was trying to clear it.
4. Response time was 20 minutes. If the situation would have escalated and became life threatening then I would have been in a bad way. We can not rely on the police to be there the second we need them. I know they do their best but We are responsible for our own safety. Which brings me back to point # 2. Always carry. I know this. This whole thing just drives the point home.