First off, I bought "Wife Unit" a Bersa .380, and she "kinda" likes it...We have resided to using a nice generic leather "clip" IWB holster for it, and that works just fine when and if she carries...But that is a different story...Yes, the ammo is expensive and sometimes hard to find, but in my opinion the use of this caliber for SD is just fine, I believe you are just as "got" with a .380, as you are with pretty much any other caliber or gun...Practice, practice and more practice...And get them signed up in some women's only groups to practice as well...There are some absolutely top notch women instructors out there that I'd go to war with anyday, they'd whoop me on a bad day!
I'll tell the story again, that the first firearm she ever bought, and I have to say with no input from me or anyone else, was that Taurus PT24/7 in 9mm a few years ago...That is, in my opinion, one of the smoothest handguns I have ever been allowed to put only 17 rounds thru before I got it taken away from me...
And if there is anything anyone can ever learn about that process is that if your significant other wants a gun, let them pick it out...If it feels good in the hand, they will want to shoot it, and shoot it till they get good with it...That is so critical, its not even funny...
Just my opinion...
"Perseverance and Preparedness triumph over Procrastination and Paranoia every time.” -- Steve
NRA - Life Member
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