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Re: kidnapping - OK to shoot?

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Russell wrote:What if it's a parent picking their misbehaving child up and taking them to the car?

Now you've just pulled a gun on a mother/father that was trying to take care of their ill-behaved child.

Never assume anything when it involves you using force or deadly force on somebody.
That works in reverse too; the perfect cover for an abductor is to play the parent of a misbehaving child. It explains everything that's obvious to the casual observer and once that explanation is heard most people would ignore anything the child says or does to the contrary. And it doesn't have to be an unrelated person; parents can kidnap their own children (in fact a large percentage of Amber Alerts are custody disputes turned abductions). Answer honestly; would you think there was anything out of place about an adult using nonviolent force to control a screaming kid, and if you thought there was anything suspicious would you ask any question other than "is everything all right"?

You don't immediately DRAW on someone carrying a screaming kid to a car, but you should take a good long look and if anything at all seems fishy then start asking questions. A parent will usually be able to provide recent photos from their purse or wallet, or the general contents of their vehicle (toys, bags of finger food, children's books or magazines, car seats, a diaper bag) that is a natural consequence of parenting will indicate they're telling the truth. Dragging a child to an old beat-up van is an immediate red flag, as is any difference in general appearance between alleged parent and child (if the child is dressed better and looks cleaner than the adult, alarm bells should be ringing) or anything between the two that belies a parent-child relationship (a woman or man that looks too old or young to be the parent of a child that age).

Now, the picture changes dramatically when it's an adult screaming. No adult screams without good reason, and when one adult is dragging another around that's trouble, plain and simple. In that situation you draw, approach and interrogate, and if necessary you pull the trigger.

From a purely legal standpoint, TPC statutes differentiate between the threat and use of deadly force. The threat of deadly force is construed as equal to the use of force other than deadly force. Thus it is justifiable to draw a gun on someone you reasonably believe is committing kidnapping, but generally not presumed justified. In general, if you think otherwise unlawful conduct such as brandishing a gun is justified in order to prevent imminent harm, and that need outweighs expectation of reasonable public conduct (it's generally a social faux pas to point a gun at someone :roll: ), you are justified in using that conduct.

You might even truly be able to argue a presumption of justification; someone is being forcibly removed from a building. If the victim is an adult, it may not be immediately clear whether the victim worked in that building; if so, your belief that force is necessary is presumed reasonable and you are thus presumed justified in threatening or using deadly force. You are also resumed justified if your target exhibits any deadly weapon (gun or knife) while hurting or removing the victim. That makes it aggravated kidnapping or aggravated assault, and the victim then does not have to be in their home, car or workplace as is required for assumption of justification based on illegal forcible entry or removal. An abduction of a child is, 99% of the time, also aggravated kidnapping, as the intent is almost always one of these things: to sexually abuse the child, murder them, hold them for ransom, terrorize someone else (typically whoever has legal custody), or interfere with a governmental function (typically the duty of CPS and police to enforce custody). Even if none of this applies technically, using force to prevent or stop what turns out to be a simple assault or kidnapping is pretty safe ground against a Texas jury even if it turns out you are not presumed justified in doing so. However, if you're mistaken in a case like a parent controlling an unruly child, the prosecutor is going to tear any assertion of a "reasonable belief" to shreds and you will probably be convicted of brandishing, unlawful use of force, or even aggravated assault.

In short, if you have good reason given the circumstances to think that someone around you is being assaulted or kidnapped by someone else, even if you are mistaken, drawing a weapon to prevent or stop the alleged act is justifiable. Proving it however is your responsibility, made easier or more difficult by the actual circumstances surrounding the incident. The legal morass you open yourself to, not to mention the threat of escalation, necessitates that you be pretty damn sure you know what's going on before you step in.
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What looks like the abduction of an adult could well be a case of an intoxicated or mentally ill person being dealt with in the only manner possible by a responsible party.

BTW, I once had someone call the police when they saw my kid having a tantrum. It's a real good idea to have a state ID card for your kid.

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I suggest shooting if you're being kidnapped.
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flintknapper wrote:
dwsUSA wrote:I had never thought about this before but after hearing an Amber alert the other morning I was wondering what the law would be in the following situation: You see someone trying to kidnap someone (assume it is someone you don't know) - can/should/would you shoot to help them if you could? If I knew I could do so without hitting the innocent person I think I would. If nothing else I would certainly try to disable their vehicle.

I would strongly advise against this.

Example why:

I have a niece on my wife's side of the family that is severely Bi-Polar. I have had to physically restrain her in the past...and even force her into (or out of) a vehicle. In the midst of this....I don't have time to stop and convince some bystander that I am temporarily in charge of this girl (acting in Loco Parentis).

I would prefer not to be shot, or have to shoot someone over a kidnapping they "thought" they were witnessing.

If you want to help, call 911, be a good witness, give good descriptions of the person and their vehicle, their dress, the place it occurred, etc. Follow them if it can be done safely, stay on line with 911 personnel.

Unless you personally know the person being "kidnapped" and all the circumstances surrounding it, then NO...do not physically intervene.

Just my .02 on it.

And this coming from a guy with "napper" in his name!


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You don't immediately DRAW on someone carrying a screaming kid to a car, but you should take a good long look and if anything at all seems fishy then start asking questions. A parent will usually be able to provide recent photos from their purse or wallet, or the general contents of their vehicle (toys, bags of finger food, children's books or magazines, car seats, a diaper bag) that is a natural consequence of parenting will indicate they're telling the truth.
If I were the parent in that situation I would tell my "questioner" to get out of my face and stay out, and that I didn't have to tell them a darned thing. No way am I gonna stand around pulling pictures out of my wallet or anything like that.

If someone then started to produce a weapon, I'm sure I would immediately acquire a reasonable belief that they were threatening me with unlawful deadly force.

If someone thinks something wrong is going down, they should get the license plate number and call the cops. My plastic says, "Concealed Handgun License", not "Batman".

In another thread I related where I once saw a man and a woman arguing over a child in a language I didn't understand. The man tried to take the child from the woman's arms and she held on. I was walking towards them and just stopped about 10 feet away and stared at them with my arms folded across my chest. (Note: I'm not a big guy and I wouldn't scare anybody.) A couple of other people who were walking up behind me did the same thing. The guy stormed off, still spouting off angrily in whatever language he was using.

I was legally armed at the time. I don't know what I would have done if things had gone further down hill from there, but drawing and/or shooting would have been pretty far down on the list.
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Re: kidnapping - OK to shoot?

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MBGuy wrote:On the other hand, If the kidnapper gets away with the kid, the kid has a 1% chance of surviving in my opinion and the next time he's/she's seen is in a casket.
Where did you come up with the 1% ?

Most kidnappings ,Amber alerts, are custody cases with family members, and the kid is returned un harmed. One 1% survival rate seems very very low. I don't know though if there are any figures.
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If I were the parent in that situation I would tell my "questioner" to get out of my face and stay out, and that I didn't have to tell them a darned thing. No way am I gonna stand around pulling pictures out of my wallet or anything like that.

If someone then started to produce a weapon, I'm sure I would immediately acquire a reasonable belief that they were threatening me with unlawful deadly force.

If someone thinks something wrong is going down, they should get the license plate number and call the cops. My plastic says, "Concealed Handgun License", not "Batman".
I think i would be grateful that someone erred on the side of caution.

All you have to do is imagine your daughter getting dragged away by a stranger and think about whether you would want a stranger to say something and try to intervene, or just be a witness.

A witness may be good in a robbery, or car accident, but when talking about someone taking a child, its a whole different story.
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Re: kidnapping - OK to shoot?

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dihappy wrote:
flintknapper wrote:
dwsUSA wrote:I had never thought about this before but after hearing an Amber alert the other morning I was wondering what the law would be in the following situation: You see someone trying to kidnap someone (assume it is someone you don't know) - can/should/would you shoot to help them if you could? If I knew I could do so without hitting the innocent person I think I would. If nothing else I would certainly try to disable their vehicle.

I would strongly advise against this.

Example why:

I have a niece on my wife's side of the family that is severely Bi-Polar. I have had to physically restrain her in the past...and even force her into (or out of) a vehicle. In the midst of this....I don't have time to stop and convince some bystander that I am temporarily in charge of this girl (acting in Loco Parentis).

I would prefer not to be shot, or have to shoot someone over a kidnapping they "thought" they were witnessing.

If you want to help, call 911, be a good witness, give good descriptions of the person and their vehicle, their dress, the place it occurred, etc. Follow them if it can be done safely, stay on line with 911 personnel.

Unless you personally know the person being "kidnapped" and all the circumstances surrounding it, then NO...do not physically intervene.

Just my .02 on it.

And this coming from a guy with "napper" in his name!


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Yes, but it is the prefix (flint) not (kid)...that is the important distinction. ;-)
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Liberty wrote:
MBGuy wrote:On the other hand, If the kidnapper gets away with the kid, the kid has a 1% chance of surviving in my opinion and the next time he's/she's seen is in a casket.
Where did you come up with the 1% ?

Most kidnappings ,Amber alerts, are custody cases with family members, and the kid is returned un harmed. One 1% survival rate seems very very low. I don't know though if there are any figures.
My bad. I'm thinking in terms of being positive it's a kidnapping, on my street, where like I said before, I know the kids, their behavior, and can recognize a good amount of the family members. So if it's a real kidnapping, by a REAL bad guy intending on sexual molestation, etc, then the point I was making is that the kid is already in grave danger, more than if you did something to try and stop the kidnapping. 1% may be exaggerated, but the only one I can remember not being killed is the pizza place employee in Ohio that kidnapped the second boy when he already had a kidnapped one at home. The rest seem to end up dead. Whether it's 1% or 10% or even 23%, my point was that the kid's already in grave danger, and, in my imagined scenario of my street, you're sealing their doomed fate by being a good witness.

Now if I was in a public parking lot, and witnessed what seemed to be a kidnapping, yes, I'd think it'd be too hard to be sure and I'd be taking pictures with my cell phone, writing down license plate numbers, calling 911, maybe even following the alleged kidnapper. But draw, probably not. I'd have to have something that made me absolutely positive.

Something else I'm not sure of is the MO of kidnappers. It seems to me that dragging a kid kicking and screaming wouldn't be how they do it. I would think (just guessing here folks) that driving by a walking/bicycling kid and immediately in a matter of several seconds, opening the door and throwing him/her in and speeding away. There's just too many witnesses to dragging a kid, and kidnappers seem to be the coward types. Evil, but coward. So, I would think, that upon seeing the drive-by kidnapping, you'd be fairly sure of what you saw. At that point, it'd be too late to draw, and you'd have to maybe start a chase, call 911, etc.
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dihappy wrote: I think i would be grateful that someone erred on the side of caution.
So you're in the middle of an intense situation with your unruly kid, and you're going to stand there and be GRATEFUL while some perfect stranger starts questioning you and asking you to prove you're the kid's parent? You'd be grateful that they were snooping around in your car to see if it looked like a "parent's car", whatever that is?

As the saying goes, YMMV.

I'd tell the busybody to get out of my face and stay out.

And they darned sure better not produce a weapon. 'Cause if they do, the best thing that would happen to them afterward is getting thrown into the county jail.
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MBGuy wrote: My bad. I'm thinking in terms of being positive it's a kidnapping, on my street, where like I said before, I know the kids, their behavior, and can recognize a good amount of the family members. So if it's a real kidnapping, by a REAL bad guy intending on sexual molestation, etc, then the point I was making is that the kid is already in grave danger, more than if you did something to try and stop the kidnapping. 1% may be exaggerated, but the only one I can remember not being killed is the pizza place employee in Ohio that kidnapped the second boy when he already had a kidnapped one at home. The rest seem to end up dead. Whether it's 1% or 10% or even 23%, my point was that the kid's already in grave danger, and, in my imagined scenario of my street, you're sealing their doomed fate by being a good witness.

Now if I was in a public parking lot, and witnessed what seemed to be a kidnapping, yes, I'd think it'd be too hard to be sure and I'd be taking pictures with my cell phone, writing down license plate numbers, calling 911, maybe even following the alleged kidnapper. But draw, probably not. I'd have to have something that made me absolutely positive.

Something else I'm not sure of is the MO of kidnappers. It seems to me that dragging a kid kicking and screaming wouldn't be how they do it. I would think (just guessing here folks) that driving by a walking/bicycling kid and immediately in a matter of several seconds, opening the door and throwing him/her in and speeding away. There's just too many witnesses to dragging a kid, and kidnappers seem to be the coward types. Evil, but coward. So, I would think, that upon seeing the drive-by kidnapping, you'd be fairly sure of what you saw. At that point, it'd be too late to draw, and you'd have to maybe start a chase, call 911, etc.
I don't really have any figures either, but it is true that it is a small percentage of kidnappings are about sexual molestation. The press plays it up when it happens but it realy is a rare thing. most sex molestation is done by earnining confidence with the child. I am familiar with a snatch and grab. Guys grabed the kid (4 year old) while pointing a gun at the parent. It was a U.S marshal returning the boy to his Canadian Mom. The kid screamed of course, he didn't know what was going on.
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In 1997 I was taking a break from studying for med school finals in Albany, NY. Went to the gym, then to the mall for a bit. Pulling out on my way home I saw 2 guys forcing a screaming girl (all late teens/early 20's kids) into an old datsun(yup, old enough to be a datsun, not a nissan) At this point in my life I had no CHL and in fact had really never even shot a handgun. I was reasonably well trained empty hand with about 17 years. Anyway, I blocked their car in with mine and hopped out, ran over to the passenger side since that guy looked pretty confused about the whole thing. Opened the door and was prepparing to drag the guy out when I realized the girl was looking at me absolutely terrified. She was kinda clinging over to the driver. Oops. Buncha kids playing. I stammered an apology and got my car out of the way.

Unless I was VERY VERY VERY sure, I'd currently take a description, a license plate and call 911.

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I would shoot for sure.... video using my cell phone.

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I'd have to go with the collect information and follow. If warrented, block them in and call 911. Yeah, some police calls get low priority but I'll bet a "I think there is a kidnapping in progress" statement would get some pretty quick response time.

When planning for the worst ask yourself, "would I be justified in hurling a brick at this person at this time?". If the answer is no, you probably should not be drawing on them either. (Just my humble op.) :lol:

However if a woman or child is in obvious danger I'd have to act. See the "Forgive me I have sinned" thread for that.

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frankie_the_yankee wrote:
dihappy wrote: I think i would be grateful that someone erred on the side of caution.
So you're in the middle of an intense situation with your unruly kid, and you're going to stand there and be GRATEFUL while some perfect stranger starts questioning you and asking you to prove you're the kid's parent? You'd be grateful that they were snooping around in your car to see if it looked like a "parent's car", whatever that is?

As the saying goes, YMMV.

I'd tell the busybody to get out of my face and stay out.

And they darned sure better not produce a weapon. 'Cause if they do, the best thing that would happen to them afterward is getting thrown into the county jail.
Hey you do what you want to do. I believe that if more average people got involved, this world would be a better place.

How many times have we seen videos where we see people just walking by not lending a hand to a helpless woman, man or kid whos in need of help.

I can confidently say that i do my best to adhere to the "golden rule" and believe that what goes around comes around. So again, you do what ever it is your conscience allows you to do and i'll do the same.
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