[Charles handled this part of my post much better than I did so i edited it out]
Now, back on topic.
Personally, I avoid any establishment that even posts an illegal sign. They don't want my dollars, so I won't give it to them. To me, it's intent that matters. If they want to have a self-defense free zone, I'll let them.
I have the "no gun-no money" cards I made up; and I might have to make up another set, focusing on self defense. If it's an establishment that I really want to try and push teh envelope with (Jason's Deli in Addison for instance) I might hand them a card.
If a business makes it clear how they feel, like Taco Cabana has, I think it makes more sense to just not eat there. Maybe make sure people you know understand why you don't eat there.
Having said that, I'm also glad some people take it a step further. I don't have the time, energy, or drive to mess around with these people. I'm glad SOMEBODY does. You never know who you might get to see the light of day. I understand Frys' Electronics used to post some sort of "no guns" signs; I don't see them anymore.
As my hippified father would say, "Come on people now! Smile on your brother, everybody get together, try and love one another right now!"
.השואה... לעולם לא עוד
Holocaust... Never Again.
Some people create their own storms and get upset when it rains.
--anonymous