I understand how you feel. I purchased a Kimber CDP II thinking it would be a beautiful addition. After 50 rounds of break in setting it on a towel between reloads with no holster work, it had two scratches.

I sold it!!!!!! I'm a gun USER not a gun COLLECTOR. Sure I try my best to be "nice" to my carry and competition guns, like you, I would like them to stay "pretty". The fact is, if you use them, they will show wear. If you want a pristine safe queen, then don't use it. If you want to be proficient and DEADLY with it, then let it earn those badges of courage and use.
I carry a Kimber Ultra II Stainless most of the time, and sure , she shows some wear. However, she shoots just as sweet with those little beauty marks. Sometimes I carry a PF9, it never was pretty. LOL I clean it, oil it, and abuse the heck out of it. Guess what...it goes BANG every time, and hits where I am looking.
So, collect and preserve/worship the safe queens if you want, but shoot the heck out of your "tools" and don't look back.

Carry safe and carry when and where you can. I'm just sayin'.