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Re: Road Rager Didn't Like Me Driving the Speed Limit

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Kawabuggy wrote:I'll post this because I PRACTICE this often.

When you first noticed the person tail-gating you, did you immediately start looking for a turn off so that you could let him go? If you did not, then you are part of the negative equation. Just think how easy it would have been to simply pull off and let him go tail gate, or rear-end, someone else. If you had a chance to change lanes, or pull off, why didn't you?

I know, it's not a "manly" thing to have to sacrifice your driving lane to an idiot that is a danger to himself and others. But you could have. And you should have. The only way to avoid problem people like that idiot is to just get out his way and let him go on and be a problem for someone else. I fear though, that too many of us, myself included at times in the past, allow arrogance, or attitude, to come into play and instead of removing ourselves from the equation, we simply continue on with the "it's my lane so screw you" attitude. Well, if he had hit you, his/your insurance would have probably covered it, but what if you got a broken back, or broken neck, or irreparable damage from something you could have avoided? People often say "you can't fix stupid" but I sure as heck can do my best to avoid it. If someone is tailgating me for ANY reason, I'll gladly surrender that lane by changing to another lane, or pulling off and letting them go if it is a 1 lane road. It's part of defensive driving. I can't change the way stupid people operate their vehicles, but I can often find a way to work around them, or simply get away from them. Think about that next time someone is tailgating you-just signal your intentions to change lanes, or turn off the road, and let them go. You are never going to change their attitude, or driving habits, so just remove yourself from the equation. It's easy.
Sorry, I disagree.

1) Pulling off, especially turning off costs me time. That's not arrogance, that's me controlling a very finite resource.
2) Getting out of their way is rewarding bad behavior. You may call that arrogance, but I do not. I figure if we all move out of the guy's way, we're training him (and anyone else watching) how to get the "peons" to get out of their way - just ride a bumper and we'll move.
3) I've read in the past (though my memory could be off) that 80% of traffic accidents are caused when someone changes a lane. I'm going to let the tailgater be the one to possibly be the cause of an accident, not me.
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Kawabuggy, did you grow accustomed to being bullied as a child?
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A #1 rule of racetrack safety is that it is incumbent on the person making the pass to make it safely. The safest way you can help him with that is to not change what you've been doing. You be a constant—as in maintain speed direction and lane—and when he has the opportunity he will pass you.

Here's another possibility to scramble your noodle....... let's say you exit the freeway, or make an unwanted right turn, or whatever, to get away from the guy and let him past you.......and he follows you off the road to "teach you a lesson?" All you've done then is to place yourself in a possibly more isolated predicament, where evasion is more difficult, and maybe there are fewer witnesses.

No.... keep going, maintain your speed, lane, and direction........and loosen your gun in the holster just a tad.
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:iagree:
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ScooterSissy wrote:
Kawabuggy wrote:I'll post this because I PRACTICE this often.

When you first noticed the person tail-gating you, did you immediately start looking for a turn off so that you could let him go? If you did not, then you are part of the negative equation. Just think how easy it would have been to simply pull off and let him go tail gate, or rear-end, someone else. If you had a chance to change lanes, or pull off, why didn't you?

I know, it's not a "manly" thing to have to sacrifice your driving lane to an idiot that is a danger to himself and others. But you could have. And you should have. The only way to avoid problem people like that idiot is to just get out his way and let him go on and be a problem for someone else. I fear though, that too many of us, myself included at times in the past, allow arrogance, or attitude, to come into play and instead of removing ourselves from the equation, we simply continue on with the "it's my lane so screw you" attitude. Well, if he had hit you, his/your insurance would have probably covered it, but what if you got a broken back, or broken neck, or irreparable damage from something you could have avoided? People often say "you can't fix stupid" but I sure as heck can do my best to avoid it. If someone is tailgating me for ANY reason, I'll gladly surrender that lane by changing to another lane, or pulling off and letting them go if it is a 1 lane road. It's part of defensive driving. I can't change the way stupid people operate their vehicles, but I can often find a way to work around them, or simply get away from them. Think about that next time someone is tailgating you-just signal your intentions to change lanes, or turn off the road, and let them go. You are never going to change their attitude, or driving habits, so just remove yourself from the equation. It's easy.
Sorry, I disagree.

1) Pulling off, especially turning off costs me time. That's not arrogance, that's me controlling a very finite resource.
2) Getting out of their way is rewarding bad behavior. You may call that arrogance, but I do not. I figure if we all move out of the guy's way, we're training him (and anyone else watching) how to get the "peons" to get out of their way - just ride a bumper and we'll move.
3) I've read in the past (though my memory could be off) that 80% of traffic accidents are caused when someone changes a lane. I'm going to let the tailgater be the one to possibly be the cause of an accident, not me.
I fully agree with the 3 points above. Especially #2.
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Kawabuggy wrote:I'll post this because I PRACTICE this often.

When you first noticed the person tail-gating you, did you immediately start looking for a turn off so that you could let him go? If you did not, then you are part of the negative equation. Just think how easy it would have been to simply pull off and let him go tail gate, or rear-end, someone else. If you had a chance to change lanes, or pull off, why didn't you?
This^^^

As well as, just move over a lane.... so what your going the speed limit, good for you,,, the left lane is not your personal travel lane.. it is a lane stated clearly as the passing lane, slower traffic move over. If your moving SLOWER then other traffic, you do not belong in the left lane of a multi lane road system.

Self appointed speed enforcement drivers are a hazard,,, they will never admit it, but they create a hazard where none existed.. :totap:
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bronco78 wrote:
Kawabuggy wrote:I'll post this because I PRACTICE this often.

When you first noticed the person tail-gating you, did you immediately start looking for a turn off so that you could let him go? If you did not, then you are part of the negative equation. Just think how easy it would have been to simply pull off and let him go tail gate, or rear-end, someone else. If you had a chance to change lanes, or pull off, why didn't you?
This^^^

As well as, just move over a lane.... so what your going the speed limit, good for you,,, the left lane is not your personal travel lane.. it is a lane stated clearly as the passing lane, slower traffic move over. If your moving SLOWER then other traffic, you do not belong in the left lane of a multi lane road system.

Self appointed speed enforcement drivers are a hazard,,, they will never admit it, but they create a hazard where none existed.. :totap:
While I do try to get over and stay out of the fast lane if I'm not passing slower traffic, sometimes you cannot win. Just the other day, I was on 820 in NW Fort Worth going east. The right lane had some big rigs and other assorted slower traffic kind of spaced out a bit, so I was in the middle lane and I usually do about 3 or 4 over because it seems my speedometer is a little under compared with my GPS. Anyway, a guy ran up behind me and started riding on my bumper...mind you, the LEFTMOST lane was EMPTY...he wanted me to get out of the MIDDLE LANE so he could go through. But I didn't want to get in between any of the rigs or other slow traffic, and indeed I kept wondering why he didn't just go around me in the fast lane. I sped up a couple of miles an hour but stayed where I was...after a minute, the guy whipped into the SLOW LANE in between a couple of other vehicles, one of them a big rig, to go around me, and then whipped back over in the middle lane...all this time, no one had come along in the fast lane. Some people have got tunnel vision or something is wrong with them, I am convinced. COULD I have physically gotten in to the slow lane, or the fast lane? Yes, I guess so...but it didn't make any sense...once again, the fast lane was COMPLETELY empty... :???:
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bronco78 wrote:
Kawabuggy wrote:I'll post this because I PRACTICE this often.

When you first noticed the person tail-gating you, did you immediately start looking for a turn off so that you could let him go? If you did not, then you are part of the negative equation. Just think how easy it would have been to simply pull off and let him go tail gate, or rear-end, someone else. If you had a chance to change lanes, or pull off, why didn't you?
This^^^

As well as, just move over a lane.... so what your going the speed limit, good for you,,, the left lane is not your personal travel lane.. it is a lane stated clearly as the passing lane, slower traffic move over. If your moving SLOWER then other traffic, you do not belong in the left lane of a multi lane road system.

Self appointed speed enforcement drivers are a hazard,,, they will never admit it, but they create a hazard where none existed.. :totap:
Bronco78, my post above assumes that I'm NOT one of those self-appointed traffic flow enforcers. It is my habit to drive typically 5-10 mph faster than the posted limit on freeways. I don't rush up on people and tailgate them, but I do go around them as safety permits; and I do get mildly hot under the collar when two people are going 55 side by side in a 60 zone and there are only two lanes, leaving no passing option. I don't get mad enough to be aggressive with them, but that is a very rude practice, and I agree that the right lane is where slower moving traffic belongs. In fact, I take it a step further and say that even if you're the faster vehicle, once you have cleared slower moving traffic, the responsible thing to do is to move back over into the right hand lane until the next time you need to pass......because you never know when someone is going to come up behind you and now you are the irritant to some other driver.

My earlier post above speaks only to the following: someone has rushed up on me and is acting twitchy and aggressive. Often, just as I have started to change lanes to get out of his way, he starts to change lanes to pass me. NOW we're in a situation where neither driver can tell what the other is going to do; I want to get out of his way, but not if he's going to change lanes at the same time; and he wants to get around me but because of his own aggressive behavior can no longer predict which way I'll jump so he can pass. This is a very common situation, and it has not only happened to me a lot of times, I have observed it happening to other drivers a lot of times. One time, back in L.A., I came up on slower moving traffic in the right lane but could not pull over to pass on the left because a long string of cars in the left lane was zooming by. Another guy was stuck behind me also in the same right lane. When the left lane cleared, I signalled and moved over to pass the bus that was holding us up. Unfortunately for the guy behind me, he had the same idea but apparently didn't think I had the right to do the same, and he reacted as if I had cut him off (I had not, there being several car lengths between us at the time). As we approached the next signal, me still in the left lane, he had already moved back over into the right lane, and pulled up and stopped on my right and threatened me with a large framed semiautomatic pistol, caliber being roughly 155mm.

Furthermore, it has happened to me when I was the faster moving vehicle. Many times I have begun to overtake a slower moving car in the left lane (because of my habit of driving 5-10 mph over the limit, which I'll explain in a minute), decided before I got to him that I was just going to move over into the right lane and go around him, and just as I started to make my move, he also starts to move over, wanting to get out of my way. BOTH of us are trying to be courteous to the other, neither is experiencing road rage, but the risks involved in the situation have just increased by some amount. In this situation, absent any feelings of ill will toward one another, the safer thing for the driver being overtaken is to agree that it is incumbent upon the driver making the pass to make a safe pass, and to not jimmie it up by making the pass more difficult to execute. Of course, the entire thing could have been avoided if he was in the right lane where he belonged. On the other hand, maybe he himself has just passed a string of slower vehicles in the right lane and has simply forgotten to move over after passing.

I drive a little faster than the flow of traffic on freeways out of habit because, back in the days when my primary transportation was a motorcycle, I had two different California Highway Patrol motorcycle cops who were friends of mine tell me that this is how they are trained (or were at the time). They both told me the same thing—that on a motorcycle, you are safer if you maintain the initiative by being the one who moves through traffic (NOT "blasting" through traffic) rather than being "done to" by surrendering the initiative to car drivers. In other words, you have more options available to you on a motorcycle when you are moving just a tad faster than the flow of car traffic, and that makes it safer for you the motorcyclist. Since then, it has been my observation that this is largely true in cars too.

I realize that Gigag04 might cite me for speeding by going 65-70 mph in a 60 zone, but that's a risk I'm willing to take (and hope that my CHL will get me a reminder to watch my speed instead of a ticket :mrgreen: 'cause he's a nice guy), and I'm not advocating going 90 in a 60 zone. Also, I only practice this habit on open highways. On surface streets, I tend to drive with the flow of traffic.

Anyway, if everyone simply observed some common courtesy on the roads, we wouldn't even be posting our experiences in this thread because there'd be nothing to talk about. And one of the simplest things we can do is to use the left lane as a passing lane, and just not camp out there unless we are passing other vehicles. But since lots of drivers are either rude or oblivious (in all aspects of their lives, not just on the roads), then the next best thing is to not behave unpredictably when Genghis Kahn is rusing up on your tailgate. If you see them coming from a ways away, and you have the opportunity to do so safely, get over to the right and let them pass. But if they come flogging up on you at Mach Shnell and acting aggressively rude and offended that you're even using their oxygen, then since you don't know which way they are going to jump, the safest thing you can do is to not do anything, and let them decide what they're going to do.....and then be prepared to deal with whatever might follow.
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Heartland Patriot wrote: While I do try to get over and stay out of the fast lane if I'm not passing slower traffic, sometimes you cannot win. Just the other day, I was on 820 in NW Fort Worth going east. The right lane had some big rigs and other assorted slower traffic kind of spaced out a bit, so I was in the middle lane and I usually do about 3 or 4 over because it seems my speedometer is a little under compared with my GPS. Anyway, a guy ran up behind me and started riding on my bumper...mind you, the LEFTMOST lane was EMPTY...he wanted me to get out of the MIDDLE LANE so he could go through. But I didn't want to get in between any of the rigs or other slow traffic, and indeed I kept wondering why he didn't just go around me in the fast lane. I sped up a couple of miles an hour but stayed where I was...after a minute, the guy whipped into the SLOW LANE in between a couple of other vehicles, one of them a big rig, to go around me, and then whipped back over in the middle lane...all this time, no one had come along in the fast lane. Some people have got tunnel vision or something is wrong with them, I am convinced. COULD I have physically gotten in to the slow lane, or the fast lane? Yes, I guess so...but it didn't make any sense...once again, the fast lane was COMPLETELY empty... :???:
No doubt, there is no accounting for ignorant folks.......

Was that a HOV lane he was not wanting to use?
I don't know that area, so have no idea..

Heck I even understand those doing what is comfortable to them (Posted limit, a few under, what ever) in the left lane,, when there is SLOWER traffic in the lanes to the right..... that person should not have to move right in to the SLOWER traffic, just because someone in the left lane behind wants to go double the posted limit..

Im just saying, if your going slower, and can move over, do it.
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bronco78 wrote:
Heartland Patriot wrote: While I do try to get over and stay out of the fast lane if I'm not passing slower traffic, sometimes you cannot win. Just the other day, I was on 820 in NW Fort Worth going east. The right lane had some big rigs and other assorted slower traffic kind of spaced out a bit, so I was in the middle lane and I usually do about 3 or 4 over because it seems my speedometer is a little under compared with my GPS. Anyway, a guy ran up behind me and started riding on my bumper...mind you, the LEFTMOST lane was EMPTY...he wanted me to get out of the MIDDLE LANE so he could go through. But I didn't want to get in between any of the rigs or other slow traffic, and indeed I kept wondering why he didn't just go around me in the fast lane. I sped up a couple of miles an hour but stayed where I was...after a minute, the guy whipped into the SLOW LANE in between a couple of other vehicles, one of them a big rig, to go around me, and then whipped back over in the middle lane...all this time, no one had come along in the fast lane. Some people have got tunnel vision or something is wrong with them, I am convinced. COULD I have physically gotten in to the slow lane, or the fast lane? Yes, I guess so...but it didn't make any sense...once again, the fast lane was COMPLETELY empty... :???:
No doubt, there is no accounting for ignorant folks.......

Was that a HOV lane he was not wanting to use?
I don't know that area, so have no idea..

Heck I even understand those doing what is comfortable to them (Posted limit, a few under, what ever) in the left lane,, when there is SLOWER traffic in the lanes to the right..... that person should not have to move right in to the SLOWER traffic, just because someone in the left lane behind wants to go double the posted limit..

Im just saying, if your going slower, and can move over, do it.
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george wrote:Consider this,

last month, on the way to Florida, a black Charger comes up behind a car in the left lane. Getting a littlle close, and flashing his headlights to pass. The car in the left lane decided he would teach the agressive driver a lesson, and put on his brakes. The Charger was an unmarked trooper. Surprise!
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The Annoyed Man wrote:
bronco78 wrote:
Kawabuggy wrote:I'll post this because I PRACTICE this often.

When you first noticed the person tail-gating you, did you immediately start looking for a turn off so that you could let him go? If you did not, then you are part of the negative equation. Just think how easy it would have been to simply pull off and let him go tail gate, or rear-end, someone else. If you had a chance to change lanes, or pull off, why didn't you?
This^^^

As well as, just move over a lane.... so what your going the speed limit, good for you,,, the left lane is not your personal travel lane.. it is a lane stated clearly as the passing lane, slower traffic move over. If your moving SLOWER then other traffic, you do not belong in the left lane of a multi lane road system.

Self appointed speed enforcement drivers are a hazard,,, they will never admit it, but they create a hazard where none existed.. :totap:
Bronco78, my post above assumes that I'm NOT one of those self-appointed traffic flow enforcers. It is my habit to drive typically 5-10 mph faster than the posted limit on freeways. I don't rush up on people and tailgate them, but I do go around them as safety permits; and I do get mildly hot under the collar when two people are going 55 side by side in a 60 zone and there are only two lanes, leaving no passing option. I don't get mad enough to be aggressive with them, but that is a very rude practice, and I agree that the right lane is where slower moving traffic belongs. In fact, I take it a step further and say that even if you're the faster vehicle, once you have cleared slower moving traffic, the responsible thing to do is to move back over into the right hand lane until the next time you need to pass......because you never know when someone is going to come up behind you and now you are the irritant to some other driver.

My earlier post above speaks only to the following: someone has rushed up on me and is acting twitchy and aggressive. Often, just as I have started to change lanes to get out of his way, he starts to change lanes to pass me. NOW we're in a situation where neither driver can tell what the other is going to do; I want to get out of his way, but not if he's going to change lanes at the same time; and he wants to get around me but because of his own aggressive behavior can no longer predict which way I'll jump so he can pass. This is a very common situation, and it has not only happened to me a lot of times, I have observed it happening to other drivers a lot of times. One time, back in L.A., I came up on slower moving traffic in the right lane but could not pull over to pass on the left because a long string of cars in the left lane was zooming by. Another guy was stuck behind me also in the same right lane. When the left lane cleared, I signalled and moved over to pass the bus that was holding us up. Unfortunately for the guy behind me, he had the same idea but apparently didn't think I had the right to do the same, and he reacted as if I had cut him off (I had not, there being several car lengths between us at the time). As we approached the next signal, me still in the left lane, he had already moved back over into the right lane, and pulled up and stopped on my right and threatened me with a large framed semiautomatic pistol, caliber being roughly 155mm.

Furthermore, it has happened to me when I was the faster moving vehicle. Many times I have begun to overtake a slower moving car in the left lane (because of my habit of driving 5-10 mph over the limit, which I'll explain in a minute), decided before I got to him that I was just going to move over into the right lane and go around him, and just as I started to make my move, he also starts to move over, wanting to get out of my way. BOTH of us are trying to be courteous to the other, neither is experiencing road rage, but the risks involved in the situation have just increased by some amount. In this situation, absent any feelings of ill will toward one another, the safer thing for the driver being overtaken is to agree that it is incumbent upon the driver making the pass to make a safe pass, and to not jimmie it up by making the pass more difficult to execute. Of course, the entire thing could have been avoided if he was in the right lane where he belonged. On the other hand, maybe he himself has just passed a string of slower vehicles in the right lane and has simply forgotten to move over after passing.

I drive a little faster than the flow of traffic on freeways out of habit because, back in the days when my primary transportation was a motorcycle, I had two different California Highway Patrol motorcycle cops who were friends of mine tell me that this is how they are trained (or were at the time). They both told me the same thing—that on a motorcycle, you are safer if you maintain the initiative by being the one who moves through traffic (NOT "blasting" through traffic) rather than being "done to" by surrendering the initiative to car drivers. In other words, you have more options available to you on a motorcycle when you are moving just a tad faster than the flow of car traffic, and that makes it safer for you the motorcyclist. Since then, it has been my observation that this is largely true in cars too.

I realize that Gigag04 might cite me for speeding by going 65-70 mph in a 60 zone, but that's a risk I'm willing to take (and hope that my CHL will get me a reminder to watch my speed instead of a ticket :mrgreen: 'cause he's a nice guy), and I'm not advocating going 90 in a 60 zone. Also, I only practice this habit on open highways. On surface streets, I tend to drive with the flow of traffic.

Anyway, if everyone simply observed some common courtesy on the roads, we wouldn't even be posting our experiences in this thread because there'd be nothing to talk about. And one of the simplest things we can do is to use the left lane as a passing lane, and just not camp out there unless we are passing other vehicles. But since lots of drivers are either rude or oblivious (in all aspects of their lives, not just on the roads), then the next best thing is to not behave unpredictably when Genghis Kahn is rusing up on your tailgate. If you see them coming from a ways away, and you have the opportunity to do so safely, get over to the right and let them pass. But if they come flogging up on you at Mach Shnell and acting aggressively rude and offended that you're even using their oxygen, then since you don't know which way they are going to jump, the safest thing you can do is to not do anything, and let them decide what they're going to do.....and then be prepared to deal with whatever might follow.

Your post most closely matchs how I drive and or react to this kind of deal... :clapping:
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I see that some of you agree with my earlier statements, and some of you don't. To those of you who disagree, let's talk about that word "de-escalation" that get's bandied about on this web site all the time.

If you go up to a bear in the woods and poke him with a stick and he attacks you, who is at fault? Remember he is just a bear and YOU are not going to change him, or his attitude. Now let's say that the bear is a metaphor for idiot drivers. It's all so clear, unless you let pride, arrogance, or attitude on your part enter the equation. By not removing yourself from the equation when an idiot driver is involved, it could be said that you are intentionally escalating a situation. Let's use another example.. You drive by a Wal-Mart and see a suspected drug deal going down. Do you drive over so that you can observe while allowing them to see you? No you say? But yet, an idiot driver up in your face, causes you to shift mental gears to "self-appointed-road-policeman" in an instant.

Those of you attempting to justify your position in regards to why you would not remove yourself from a potentially dangerous, or deadly, situation need to rethink your attitude. You are obviously escalating a situation that you can remove yourself from, if you are intelligent enough to do so. That being the key. Are you smart enough to over-ride that sense of pride, attitude, or arrogance? Some of you by your own admissions clearly are not. Maturity? Yep, I'd say that's a part of it, and a lack of it on your part to de-escalate a situation. Some of you are Billy-Bad-Ass sitting in anonymity behind the wheel of your vehicle with your tinted glass. Good for you.

Someone above mentioned something about me being bullyied during my life. No truth in that. I was 6'1" at 15 years old and weighed about 180. I'm 6'3" now and weigh 230 and am in the best physical shape of my life. I've only been in 2 fights in my life. I tried to avoid both (chicken?) but in the end I had no way out. Then, just as now, I realize there are no winners in fights. They make for great conversations while drinking, but not much else. Those who brag about fighting are rarely the ones who are presidents of companies, self employed, or millionaires. Think about it.

In regards to idiot drivers, I have a beautiful wife & kids at home waiting for me everyday. If I have to pull over a dozen times and wait 5 minutes each time to merge back into traffic to get home safely I'll do it. I can justify the extra few minutes of being a coward (as some of you have intimated) sitting on the side of the road to get home to hugs & kisses from my wife & kids. I don't know, maybe your wife & kids are not that important to some of you. Mine are. Have a great day! ;-)
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Re: Road Rager Didn't Like Me Driving the Speed Limit

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Post by mojo84 »

Kawabuggy,
Please read the original post and tell me where the OP said he had the opportunity to turn or change lanes to get out of the ragers way. As I read it, he was in a construction zone and only had one lane going his direction. He did not mention any cross streets or parking lots he could have turned into to wait his "five minutes" for him to pass as you would have done. Do you know exactly where this took place and can provide information that proves the OP didn't do what was proper and legal?

The only thing I think the OP should reconcider doing based on the information he provided in his original post is refrain from laughing at the guy that was in the wrong and in a rage.

Not impressed with your reported stature as my sixteen year old is bigger than you are. Not that that makes a hill of beans. Also, thanks for the condescending lecture. Remember, you do not know for sure to whom you are talking on these forums. I have a feeling there are plenty of millionaires, business owners and CEO's on here. ;-)
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