jt88 wrote:Good. It's ridiculous that there are people who think that it should be criminal to wear something that they don't like. As long as the person doesn't benefit from it, no one should care. "Stolen Valor" is one of the most ridiculous charges that I've ever heard.
It's a perfectly valid
social change. It just doesn't rise to the level of criminality. It's like farting in an elevator with a captive audience. Stinks, but doesn't deserve a trial.
The problem is that we now live in a culture where there exists hate speech laws, limits on political campaign contributions, etc., etc., and we've gotten used to the idea that if a thing offends us, there should be a law against it.
About 15 years ago, my wife and I went to meet my brother for sushi at a place in SoCal. Walking from the car to the restaurant, we were accosted by a guy who was well dressed and groomed, who gave me what turned out to be a song and dance about being desperate for money, having a daughter at home who was hungry, and not having gotten his first paycheck on his new job, and could I please spare him some cash so that he could feed his kid.
I gave him a $10 bill, and he immediately scurried off down an alley. A homeless person who was sitting on the sidewalk there, next to the corner of the sidewalk and the alley started laughing at us. He said, "You know that guy's a crack head, right? He just went to score!" Well, I had a sneaking suspicion in the back of my mind that there might be something less than kosher about the guy's story, but I also worship a God who calls me to be charitable, and life is not without some risks. Yeah, I got taken, but I couldn't feel too bad about it. God will deal with him, but at least I was motivated from a right heart, and I thought, God will honor that. There's one other time where I later found out I had been taken in a similar circumstance. But at the time, the stories seemed plausible.
People often lead drab and unexciting existences, and they want heroes. And when an apparent hero just falls in their laps, they want to show their appreciation. This is the hook that scammers use when they practice stolen valor for benefit. My dad
NEVER bragged about his Purple Heart and other medals. Not once.
REAL recipients of Medals of Honor, Navy Crosses, Silver Stars, Bronze Stars, and other awards for valor in combat tend not to either. Often, the actions that resulted in their awards are so painful to recall that the
last thing they want to do is drag those memories up brag about it to anyone.
So perhaps a word of caution to all of us - don't be too quick to believe it when someone spouts off about his alleged heroism under fire. I for one will be non-committal and ask questions before accepting it as true.