seniorshooteress wrote:It is becoming more likely than not, that sooner or later we may all be faced with this problem. I, for 1, don't know what my reaction would be under these same circumstances. Nothing ever goes the way we have planned it out in our heads. At least the woman was not physically harmed just a stressful, traumatic situation for her. The biggest pain will be changing all the locks, if he got her keys. Cancelling all credit/debit cards and having to deal with the hassle of getting all new ID. I am thinking that maybe I will stop carrying a purse all together. Maybe the BG's will think that no purse = no money, so why bother. I think her attention was more towards getting her child into the carseat when this happened. That could be what they were looking for. Someone's who's attention was else where while getting into their vehicle. If the get away car wasn't stolen or had stolen plates on it police maybe able to track these bg's down. I would hope that after this story folks will be more aware of their surroundings while shopping; DAY or night.
Here are a couple of thoughts for the ladies to expand seniorshooteress' thought on not carrying a purse:
1. Not carrying a purse takes you completely off the radar of each and every purse snatcher. If you don't have one, no one will attempt to take it. Yes, this is obvious. It's also most often overlooked.
2. Purses are essential life support gear for women, and very few can survive without them. Don't ask how I know this, but most would rather take their chances with the bad guys rather than leave the purse contained life support systems at home.
3. After long and deep thought, I came up with an alternative recommendation for those of the fairer sex who must carry a purse at all costs:
Go ahead and carry the purse (that's gonna happen anyway, so I might as well go with the flow).
Just don't put your goodies (cash, ID, credit cards, keys) or cell phone in it. Carry those relatively small items in a pocket or in some other non obvious manner
on your person.
If someone threatens your life up close and personal, hand him the purse. The makeup, tissues, assorted coins, and 6 months worth of credit card receipts can easily be replaced at minimal cost that's not worth risking your life to avoid.
Try not to smile as you do this so the erstwhile bad guy won't figure out that he didn't get the real loot until he's far enough away to feel safe enough to look inside.
Use the cell phone to call police.
If the BG used a vehicle, memorize the tag number instead of trying to remember things about the hood ornaments and wheels. Write the tag number down right away on something (scratch it in the dirt with your finger or onto the concrete with a pebble if you have to) to make sure it gets recorded immediately. There's a real good chance giving that info to the police over the phone will result in a rapid apprehension.
When you have time after the excitement is over, take a moment to reflect on what the BG's face would have looked like and his likely verbal response when he opened the purse and found what he went through all that trouble for wasn't in it. This should help you get over the trauma, and maybe even bring you a smile or two to help make up for a bad day.