I've deliberately stayed out of this thread until now, but this just has to be said. I'm not writing anything here that I wouldn't say to my own son, whom I love very much.
lunchbox wrote:im going to look into that i have a friend that works for AMR
Is that how you write on a job application? If you were able to write that as:
I'm going to look into that. I have a friend that works for AMR.
...then you might have a prayer on a job application. Seriously dude. If you approach your work ethic the same way you approach your posting, then it's no wonder you have career issues. I once offered to you via PM to help you with your writing skills. You assured me via PM that you know perfectly well how to spell, punctuate, and properly use the upper case, but that you're just in too much of a hurry to do it. Unfortunately, it makes your posts almost unreadable. If you're in too much of a hurry to post legibly, then you're not really paying attention to what you're doing, and I'll wager that this attitude is reflected in your work. It also means that you're not really paying attention to the answers you've been given here by well qualified people who have successful careers, and who have worked their ways up from the bottom, just like you are going to have to do.
You can't steer a ship that isn't moving. You think that you're too good to be a grease monkey, but there is great honor in being a grease monkey if you are being the best grease monkey you know how to be. If you bust your hump and forget about whether or not you think your superiors know more or less than you do, then you
will get noticed, and you will
eventually move up the chain of command and earn more money. Humility will serve you far better than pride, no matter what career path you choose. If being a mechanic is satisfying work for you, then eventually, something will open up for you to apply for - if not at your current employer, then at another employer.
If being a grease monkey or a mechanic is not satisfying work for you, then put up, shut up, and do it anyway, while you go back to school at night to learn something that is more satisfying or financially rewarding. LOTS of people have done exactly that, and their lives have turned around. If you are 22 years old, unemployed (or under-employed), and still living with your mom, then you are doing nothing with the life that God gave you, and you are dishonoring your mother.
So far, a lot of your responses to the suggestions offered by others have been excuses for why you can't or won't try something. Well, the work world doesn't really care about any of your excuses. Someone else pointed out above that the proper work attitude is "what can I do for my employer," not "what can my employer do for me?" He was right. Stop making excuses for why you can't.
Your present condition is your fault. Own the responsibility for that, and then move forward to do something to change it. Sitting at home and complaining about how you can't catch a break isn't going to pay the bills.
If you were my own son, I would counsel you to go back to the Jiffy Lube, or wherever it was, and get back to work while going to school at night; because your excuses just aren't cutting the mustard. Any work, even low paying work, is better than no work at all.
I am sorry if this sounds harsh to you, but like I said at the top, I'm not writing anything here that I wouldn't say to my own precious son.