Today's college students are not the college students of yesteryear. Cost and admissions policies used to limit who went to college to mostly serious students. You either had to have parents who could afford to pay, be willing to work a job to pay your own way, or demonstrate unusual academic achievement and earn a scholarship. The ubiquitous student loan program and lowering of academic standards has put many many "students" in college who really don't belong there because they lack either the maturity, the intelligence, or both.PaJ wrote:Truly, I'm struggling between what I believe our rights are and what my son tells me is a bad idea from what he sees. I mentioned to him that I always had guns in my dorm room for hunting or whatever. His response was, "from what I see, I wouldn't be comfortable with some people having guns in the dorm."v7a wrote:PaJ, are you saying that there's a threshold at which the goal of reducing suicide in an at-risk demographic becomes more important than protecting the individual's right to armed self-defense? If so, that's not any different than what many anti-gun people believe. They just have a different threshold and think that keeping a handgun in your own home is an unacceptable suicide risk (the "guns should be kept in a locker at the range" crowd).
Many students commit suicide after bullying. Should we restrict the 1st Amendment rights of students to reduce those suicides?
Prior to yesterday's discussion, I was 100% for any CHL holder to carry on campus (dorm or otherwise). When he made his comments, I even thought that this sounded like "anti" influence, which is why I asked other "well what about in this case?" kind of questions. But when he boiled it down to carrying on campus is fine and should happen. But from what he sees while living in the dorms, he thinks that would be a bad idea, it gives me reason to more deeply explore my position. How do you monitor it? Do they leave it in cars? I'm not sure. Concealed anytime anywhere is much easier for sure. And maybe his thoughts are influenced by others. Once implemented, maybe his fears/concerns are unfounded (like many other 'anti' fears of the wild west, etc).
Or maybe I need to get him out of the dorms because it's full of unstable people.
I had one son at A&M and one at UT Austin in the past few years. Both were shocked by the all around ignorance and stupidity of the majority of students. Most shocking to them was the conduct of the female students. That's the fault of me and their mother I suppose, bringing them up to expect more maturity, sobriety, and propriety from young females than from young males.
And it's not just the dorms. My UT son lived in a dorm the first year (and was shocked by the sense of entitlement on display there) and an off campus apartment the rest of the time, but the apartments were close to campus and the residents were mostly students, and their behavior wasn't any better and probably worse than behavior in the dorm.