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Don't know if this has been posted before. i just saw it on FB.

Long video but a great picture of where your tax dollars go.

[youtube]http://youtube.com/watch?v=bavou_SEj1E[/youtube]

A couple things. He fiancée was arrested after he and she had ten kids together (why they are not married...you have ten kids!). I am a big fan of big families, and if he was arrested for say picketing an abortion clinic or something along those lines I would understand how that would happen. But if he was arrested in a selfish indulgence then that is absolutely unacceptable. What was he arrested for? Second, does she have no family or church to turn to? I have siblings and if they were suddenly on the street we would get together and work together to get them on their feet. If a family in our church ended up like this we would try to help all we could.

Finally. If the fiancée is not going to be returning (again depends on what he was arrested for). She needs to understand she is on her own now, time to stand up and be the matriarch. We do have public services, but she is going to have to work some. It is not ideal of course, but there is $$ in the system for child care, her older ones are school age. Get a job that can pay for rent at least. Life can be very hard, you have to be stronger. Stand up! Fight for your little ones!

37 years old with 15 kids? Do the math, sweetie. YOU created those "problems" yourself. Now you have to deal with them.

"The system created her problem."

Just say NO.
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That is a lot of kids....Chris and I started relatively young (married at 22 had first child at 24), and I am only 32 not 37, but we only have 4 kids so far, and we do nothing to stop children from coming (religious conviction--mine, you don't have to share it). Even the Duggars (who started at age 20) took till age 43 to get to 19. So that is a bunch of little ones in not much time. I wonder if some of them were multiples. Anyway....sad....hope she gets herself together for the sake of the kids.

She and the fathers should pay in equal proportion to their genetic material contributed. If they had kids they knew they could not support, that's child abuse.

No truly compassionate person would give her money as a reward for abusing children.

bizarrenormality wrote:She and the fathers should pay in equal proportion to their genetic material contributed. If they had kids they knew they could not support, that's child abuse.

No truly compassionate person would give her money as a reward for abusing children.

I have compassion on the children. Children are children and they cannot help their parentage.

I don't know the full situation. She said at one point they were doing fine till the fiancée was arrested. How does one get child support from a person who is currently in jail anyway.

I pay taxes so I guess I can add her to the list that I support...