Welcome to the Forum!Larsin wrote: As it stands now(with only online reading and information) I've got it narrowed down to the following(In no order preference):
Taurus 24/7 Pro
Taurus Millenium Pro
Ruger KP95 or P95
Kahr CW9
A shotgun is the best for home defense, but since you want to double-duty the instrument, I'd go with the Kahr CW9. It's small, light and thin.