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by nitrogen
Sun Apr 26, 2009 11:29 pm
Forum: General Texas CHL Discussion
Topic: How do you convice someone, if you even can?
Replies: 35
Views: 6065

Re: How do you convice someone, if you even can?

ClarkLZeuss wrote:
Mithras61 wrote:I'm suggesting that bringing out the point that their thinking is flawed, that they are willing to see violence done (just don;'t want the responsibility of handling their own problems), and that they thenselves are actually responsible for their own safety may be a way through the morass.
One of my friends pointed out the same thing recently: whenever someone says it's preferable to call the cops than carry a gun, they have actually - albeit unknowingly - stated that guns are the solution. But if you point this out to them, they will usually respond with something like, "Well, the police are professionally trained in handling firearms." This is where the rubber really meets the road. How do we respond to this? I think this kind of mindset would be labeled by folks like Mark Levin as "statist" - trusting in the State to do everything for you. So how do we dismantle this thinking?
Depends on the person.

As an example, two people I took to the range about a year and a half ago: He's a scientist, PHD candidate, and his sister is just a general stereotypical hippie.

This very subject came up. (i.e. "The cops will come and they are professionals highly trained to use guns, etc"
So I proposed an experiment.
I wagered that I could teach his sister, inside of one day, to shoot a target at 10 yards, with the typical "two on the chest, one in the head" move. after a few hours of instruction. If she was able to to it, he'd take me and her out to a nice expensive steak dinner. If she was unable to do it, I'd take him and her to an expensive seafood dinner.
(No bias on her part, either way she got dinner out of it!)

After an hour and a half of practice, she did wonderfully; making a raggedy hole in the chest ring, and another somewhat raggedy hole in the head.

She had such a good time, she now shoots IDPA or IPSC somewhere in San Antonio.

He changed his tune somewhat after that. After seeing his sister have such a ball, he gave up thinking guns didn't belong in the hands of "private citizens", and that they could adequately defend themselves with them. He even shot a few rounds of IDPA, but decided guns weren't for him. He mostly supports the private ownership of weapons, but he's still for an AWB. (I still have work to do!)

You bring up another point that touches on something I didn't want to get into, but figure what the heck.

I think a lot of people on the "other side" of issues (here, I mostly mean "righties" but both sides are guilty of this) like to dehumanize people that disagree with them.
Your average person that believes that guns arent for private citizens isn't a communist or a statist because they believe that. Most of the time, these people honestly believe that guns are these magical voodoo objects that only chosen ones can handle, like it's some kind of sword in a stone.

Others have a problem with the NRA member stereotype. (a stereotype which we, or the NRA doesn't do a good enough job of breaking, and at times seems to encourage!) The NRA and other advocacy orgs need to do a better job reaching out to others to get them to the correct side of the fence.

We as gun owners need to do better to welcome those folks that might indeed be "statist, leftists" to the right side of the gun issue!
by nitrogen
Sun Apr 26, 2009 9:24 pm
Forum: General Texas CHL Discussion
Topic: How do you convice someone, if you even can?
Replies: 35
Views: 6065

Re: How do you convice someone, if you even can?

TxDrifter wrote:Like an earlier post mentioned, you can't convince them until they are prepared to listen.
http://www.hulu.com/watch/25712/30-days-gun-nation
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While this is true, I think you can also sometimes prepare someone to listen, as well.
As i said before (somewhat meanly) I don't think many folks here could do it well, because they have very little in common with anti-gunners and other liberals.

It's just like that one ST:TNG episode: "Darmok and Jalad at Tanagra."
"Temba, his arms wide! Sokath, his eyes uncovered!"
by nitrogen
Sat Apr 25, 2009 11:04 pm
Forum: General Texas CHL Discussion
Topic: How do you convice someone, if you even can?
Replies: 35
Views: 6065

Re: How do you convice someone, if you even can?

bryang wrote:IShe was hooked. It takes time, patience, gentleness. Don't try and force it, just let them change their mind a little at a time. Now she will shoot anything you hand her. They now have bought three pistols and a shotgun.
Perfect example. It takes patience, as well as trust. With family and friends its easier. For people you don't know as well, its a lot harder, but not impossible if you can find something in common with 'em.
by nitrogen
Sat Apr 25, 2009 10:57 pm
Forum: General Texas CHL Discussion
Topic: How do you convice someone, if you even can?
Replies: 35
Views: 6065

Re: How do you convice someone, if you even can?

Oldgringo wrote:
Nitrogen wrote:

...many of you folks...
Are you not one of us folks OR are we not one of you folk? :headscratch
Many of you folk, on this board.

As far as who I am, I'm one of you as well as one of them. (not anti-gun, but yeah.)
by nitrogen
Sat Apr 25, 2009 10:40 pm
Forum: General Texas CHL Discussion
Topic: How do you convice someone, if you even can?
Replies: 35
Views: 6065

Re: How do you convice someone, if you even can?

If you lead a horse to water, he'll drink eventually.

If you beat him over the head, yell at him, drag him, he won't only not drink, he'll probably kick you then run away screaming.

To be honest, many of you folks I think would fail miserably, because you have such disgust for the thought processes of people considered "liberals" or "anti-gun" IF you're ever going to get the trust of someone, you at least have to try and understand their thought processes from an unbiased, neutral point of view.

If you think of these folks as "collectivist, leftist scum" than you'll never get anywhere.

The thing you'll need to realize is that the everyday person isn't evil because they are anti gun. They are wrong, sure, but they aren't evil. Many times, they are quite intelligent, thoughtful people that just never even decided to be intelligent, and thoughtful about guns.

That's the key right there. You have to plant a few seeds of doubt about the "guns are bad" dogma; engage the thinking process, and you're 2/3 of the way there already...

*EDIT* I'm not talking about politicians here; they are their own type of scum not covered here. I mean regular everyday folks.

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