The Annoyed Man wrote:I've owned a XDM45-Compact 3.8 for a while now. It's a nice gun and shoots real well......quite accurately, actually. I haven't carried it for a while since I went to carrying 9mm almost exclusively. But that said, it is about the size of a G19, a little bit heavier, and has a 9+1 round capacity with the short mag, and 13+1 with the long mag.
This is my EDC, conceals well in IWB. OP mentioned wanting manual safety, but XDm's have grip safety, which I like the extra level of safety it offers