Greybeard wrote:
It seems that mouse guns are indeed the everyday "primary carry gun" for a surprising percentage of CHL people, people who, by human nature, would otherwise not carry at all due to discomfort or (often simply perceived) difficulty concealing something larger.
From the feedback received in renewal classes over the years, maybe 50 percent of TX license holders in our area actually carry regularly "on body". And about half of those have decided to "downsize" rather than carry one exclusively in the car - or even worse, not have one with them at all.
Well it would help if I knew what defines a "mouse gun" but anyway...
First of all, some people actually do not consider carrying a gun to be the center about which their life should revolve. When I was 16, my dad bought me a car and suddenly I had to have a car. For the first year or so that I had the car, "having a car" was the focus of my life. I had to learn to drive it, care for it, work on it, pay for gas and insurance, etc. But then after a little while, it was just this thing that I used on a daily basis as a normal part of my life and it was not a focus for me. Then a few years later, I got married... all over again, I have to learn how to live with someone else, how to interact, manage my household, etc. "Being married" was the focus of my life for a while. Then it just became normal everyday life and I didn't give it much thought. Then we had our first child and it was the same thing all over again... by the time my first daughter was two, it was routine.
So for many people that I know, getting a CHL, owning and carrying a gun, are just like this. Suddenly you make this change in your life that, at the time, seems like a real big deal. You have to go to a class, qualify, wait on the plastic, buy a bunch of stuff, practice, learn to maintain the weapon, educate your immediate family and friends, learn to store it safely, figure out how to buy ammo, how often to practice, you know... you have to get on top of this steep learning curve for a few months, maybe a year, maybe longer (I don't know I'm in the middle of it), "CCW" becomes a focal point of your life. But it won't be that way forever. At some point, it will become routine, just like driving a car or being a husband or father or paying your mortgage or whatever other big events in your life you have to make routine.
Now what does this have to do with so-called "mouse guns"?
Well I'm in the middle of this learning curve period. I fully intend for carrying a gun to be a normal part of my routine, and likely my wife, and probably my daughters as each of them become old enough to get a CHL. However, right now it's this difficult pattern of figuring out how this is going to work. I am not going to change my wardrobe, or spend $1K in holsters, or change the way I walk or the type of car I drive or whatever else is already established in my life in order to accommodate carrying. So a small gun that works its way into my lifestyle easier is going to be more likely for me to carry, period. After test-fitting and practicing, it is clear that my Sigma is the absolute biggest thing I could possibly carry and then it is going to be rather uncomfortable and annoying... otherwise see my sig for my potential solutions.
Rather than steadfastly advocating only carrying a large gun, it would be smart for us to advocate the correct training for whatever gun we are going to carrying, and help people find the gun that will work best for them without alteration of the rest of their life. I am trying to convince my wife that she needs her CHL and to carry most of the time but she is majorly hung up on how she is going to conceal it (she has a model's build, 6' 135lb and wears clothes that FIT), and the ONLY choice is going to be something very small like a Kahr PM9 or a Kel-Tec PF9.
I think it's important for any of us who carries to be properly trained and gain experience through practice as to how to use our weapon of choice, whether it's a "mouse gun", a 5" 1911 or a 7" .357mag. It's a responsibility just like you are responsible for learning to safely learn to drive your choice of car, be it a nimble sports car or a lumbering SUV. Unfortunately far too many people neglect learning to drive correctly and that's even something they practice daily... I kind of doubt most of the millions of TX CHL holders are going to commit to more practice or adaptation with their guns than they do with their cars.