
So I have two questions here.
The first involves running outside my apartment with the pistol. I genuinely thought she was in trouble and I didn't think twice about charging out ready for a fight. In retrospect this was probably not the best idea, but I had no clue what was going on. I still don't have my CHL (the interminable wait continues), but from a CHL standpoint - concealment wasn't much of an option since I was wearing only my shorts - and dressing to conceal simply wasn't an option given the scenario. How much trouble could I have gotten into if a LEO rolled by? She woke half the complex up with her awful caterwauling; I wasn't the only person who came out to investigate the noise.
Secondly, it has been 3 years. She has seen therapists, taken medicine, gotten "help", and all to no avail, apparently. I have seen her get upset before over this after drinking but never so severely - I concluded that she has just repressed the whole thing instead of working through it. What can I do?