mamabearCali wrote:Not to diminish childbirth (I've done it four times myself) but we women endure the pain to have the baby in arms at the end of the story. We are (in general) designed to give birth. The cramps part of labor isn't the really bad part anyway (IME)....that comes with the crowning the delivery and the repair work after.... And that is all I really want to say about that.
The video was very funny.....I would not ask my husband to do that, just silly to hurt when you don't have to.
My wife agreed. . . she added a couple of observations:
- They didn't handle it any worse than women. They really looked like most natural births we've been a part of. They were more animated than the epidural births we've seen, but that's to be expected.
- The birth part can't be simulated, but as you said, it's amazing to watch a women go from sounding and looking like she's in a war zone to looking like she's been at the spa all day. . . as soon as they put that baby in her arms. The tranquility in our experience has been profound and Providential.
We have four kiddos as do another couple that are very close to us. His wife did the epidural each time, and my buddy basically ate Whataburger until it was time to hold the baby. My wife did all four naturally (even once while being induced), and I got to do about 12 hours of squats, curls, rows, and a bunch of other exercises along with my wife. I'm not saying his wife's experience was a walk in the park, but there does seem to be a huge differentiation in the roles of the supporting cast.
At the end of each day, it was more than worth it!
